If you don't like potlucks, the solution to your problem is "don't go to potlucks," not "insist other people don't have them."

Periodontal bacteria can easily slip into the bloodstream and cause infection elsewhere in the body.

Your partner cannot fault you for refusing to host a perpetual-motion party or for the fact that you must sleep and will eventually die.

LGBT youth face a much higher risk of violence and homelessness after being rejected by their family of origin.

You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.

As long as you don't think he's just pretending not to mind for your sake, it sounds like he has truly accepted that blow jobs are too difficult and painful for you to perform, and he's still very satisfied with your sex life. Take him at his word.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.