I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.

Arm yourself with as many options as possible before making your next move.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

I think that it's a great idea to have honest conversations about children before getting married. I also think it's impossible to promise someone, "What I want right now will never change, and as long as I promise you I do - or don't - want a child - or a specific number of children - before we get married, we will never have to experience fear, anxiety, uncertainty, or the pain of not getting what we want, when we want it.

A woman who repeatedly asks a man she knows to be gay when he's going to get married and have children is not trying to let sleeping dogs lie.

Someone who responds to "Please don't grope me" with whining and pouting isn't a friend. He's an asshole and a predator.