If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

Anyone who thinks it’s funny to name their network "Tom’sHugeEtc" is going to think it’s funny that one of his neighbors is also named Tom and is embarrassed by it.

You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.

Someone who responds to "Please don't grope me" with whining and pouting isn't a friend. He's an asshole and a predator.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.