If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

If you get a dog, take care of your dog! You can just not have a dog if you don't feel like taking care of one, it's very easy to not have a dog.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.

To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

The hardest part about being ghosted is the fact that you can't deal with the ghoster directly. You just never hear from them again, and everything feels odd and incomplete.

Depression cannot be overcome by listing a series of good things in one's life, any more than a broken foot can be healed by thinking about all the other bones you have that aren't broken.