I was crazy about the song "Doot Doot," so I usually love this genre of weird, European electronic.

My inclination during sex always is to use sex toys. That's not something men are often used to.

As a child, I had a lot of older gay men taking care of me. There's a trust there. I feel like little girls and old gay men together - there's a safety. They make a shield from all of the bad things they've experienced in the world. They make a home together. There are no songs about that. I don't know if you remember, but there was a show a long time ago called 'Love, Sidney.'

My parents are very funny when they have to deal with anything racy or off-color. They usually pretend they don't speak English.

Homophobia is a tough one. In some places it's actually very OK to be homophobic. Comedy clubs in general are very unsafe spaces for LGBT, for women, for Asian people. So my goal in comedy has sort of been to make this a safe space for people who were like me.

It makes it very hard to say what you believe in and not be attacked for it. And it's not fair; I'm Korean, but I'm not supposed to talk about my experience and my life? It's unaccepting.

People are really terrified of me. I don't know why, I'm very nice, but people are very intimidated by me.