For women in my family, in Korean culture, women are really valued in their youth, and then when they get older, it's like they almost become irrelevant.

It's not the best between my family and me. There are so many crimes left unpunished, debts unpaid, white elephants in the middle of the room that no one will even offer a peanut to. We are in the red, emotionally speaking.

I became a comedian because I didn't want to be bullied anymore. Onstage I was safe.

If I'm talking to a guy who's straight and cute and single, I'm like 'are you a unicorn?'

You didn't hear Yello until later in the night in the bondage clubs. Things would start getting crazy and that's when you'd hear Yello. It was bad.

My history in show business spans over a quarter of a century, and I have seen many people in the industry struggle with coming out, only to find much more success after they finally did.

I got back from Toronto, where they had a severe outbreak of SARS - you know, Severe Asian Racism Syndrome.