Animals are murdered to produce meat; vegetables are torn up, peeled, and chopped; most of what we eat is treated with fire; and chewing is designed remorselessly to finish what killing and cooking began. People naturally prefer that none of this should happen to them. Behind every rule of table etiquette lurks the determination of each person present to be a diner, not a dish.
Margaret VisserThe extent to which we take everyday objects for granted is the precise extent to which they govern and inform our lives.
Margaret VisserEating is aggressive by nature, and the implements required for it could quickly become weapons; table manners are, most basically, a system of taboos designed to ensure that violence remains out of the question.
Margaret VisserWe use eating as a medium for social relationships: satisfaction of the most individual of needs becomes a means of creating community.
Margaret Visser