One of the great problems facing men is their failure to realize the fact that a child possesses an active psychic life even when he cannot manifest it, and that the child must secretly perfect this inner life over a long period of time.
Maria MontessoriDo not tell them how to do it. Show them how to do it and do not say a word. If you tell them, they will watch your lips move. If you show them, they will want to do it themselves.
Maria MontessoriExcept when he has regressive tendencies, the child's nature is to aim directly and energetically at functional independence.
Maria Montessori