Laughter is a release of tension. When influencing, make the other person laugh; you'll gain rapport instantly.
Savor the wanting as much as the having.
You must become what you want to attract.
We find what we are looking for.
Let your yes be yes and your no be no--you can always change your mind.
When you are doing what you really love and creating the life that you really want it will be easier to create a healthy personal relationship with someone that will be supportive of what you want too.