You don't need to do anything to be loved. Just be who you know you are. It's the only way to experience real love.
Be interested rather than interesting
You must recognize that we train the people in our lives how to treat us.
Your body will produce what your mind believes.
Ask 'What' and 'When.' The 'How' will naturally be revealed.
Consistently ask yourself: 'Is what I'm doing right now working for me or working against me?