The very best thing you can give someone is what they want.
Turn your 'problems' into 'challenges' and you will suddenly see results in a more positive light.
When you are doing what you really love and creating the life that you really want it will be easier to create a healthy personal relationship with someone that will be supportive of what you want too.
It's not enough to learn, one must become.
Thoughts are things...treat them accordingly.
Make no apologies for who you are.