There is no question that love is not the answer to.
To forgive someone means to take away the power this person has over you.
Those that are afraid to buy are always afraid to sell.
When you control your thoughts and emotions, you control everything.
Take charge of your environment.
When you are doing what you really love and creating the life that you really want it will be easier to create a healthy personal relationship with someone that will be supportive of what you want too.