You don't need to do anything to be loved. Just be who you know you are. It's the only way to experience real love.
Ask 'What' and 'When.' The 'How' will naturally be revealed.
When you know exactly what you want, then you will appreciate it more when you experience it.
Determine where you are going and how you will get there will become obvious.
Let your yes be yes and your no be no--you can always change your mind.
Sarcasm is always perceived as an attack.