Own your failure openly, publicly, with genuine regret but absolutely no shame, and youโll reap a harvest of forgiveness, trust, respect, and connection-the things you thought youโd get by succeeding. Ironic, isnโt it?
Martha BeckTo care for someone can mean to adore them, feed them, tend their wounds. But care can also signify sorrow, as in "bowed down by cares." Or anxiety, as in "Careful!" Or investment in an outcome, as in "Who cares?" The word love has no such range of meaning: It's pure acceptance.
Martha Beck