The really potent part of love is that it allows you to carry around beliefs about yourself that make you feel special, desirable, precious, innately good. Your lover couldn't have seen [these qualities] in you, even temporarily, if they weren't part of your essential being.
Martha BeckImagine the choices you'd make if you had no fear-of falling, of losing, of being alone, of disapproval.
Martha BeckQuestion every thought that causes suffering and test it against your own sense of truth.
Martha Beck