It's hard to give up the self-esteem connected to being codependent and appearing 'right,' which is probably a survival behavior learned from growing up in a crazy family. It feels like you will actually disappear.
Melody BeattieReal power comes when we stop holding others responsible for our pain, and we take responsibility for all our feelings.
Melody BeattieWhat's a codependent? The answer's easy. They're some of the most loving, caring people I know.
Melody Beattie