It's not what we don't know that hurts us, people say. It's what we believe is true that isn't that does the damage.
Melody BeattieWe are more than our problems. Even if our problem is our own behavior, the problem is not who we are-it's what we did. It's okay to have problems. It's okay to talk about problems-at appropriate times, and with safe people. It's okay to solve problems. And we're okay, even when we have, or someone we love has a problem. We don't have to forfeit our personal power or our self-esteem. We have solved exactly the problems we've needed to solve to become who we are.
Melody BeattieWaiting time is not wasted time. Something is being worked out - in us, in someone else, in the Universe.
Melody Beattie