I saw people who were hostile; they had felt so much hurt that hostility was their only defense against being crushed again.
Melody BeattieIt's not what we don't know that hurts us, people say. It's what we believe is true that isn't that does the damage.
Melody BeattieExpressing passion and gratitude will guide your life. Say it again and again. Say it until you believe it. Say it until you live it.
Melody BeattieSometimes compromise is important. Sometimes it's better to give in to someone else's wishes in order to have fun as a group or as a couple, or for the benefit of the team. Sometimes compromise is dangerous. We need to guard against compromising our standards to gain the approval or love of someone else. Decide when you can, and when you cannot, compromise. If it's not harmful and you are ambivalent about a decision, then compromise. If it could lead to breaking your values, compromise isn't a good idea.
Melody Beattie