Life is always moving, changing, shifting into its next shape. The movement is natural. It is how we evolve. Let the shifts happen. Take responsibility for yourself each step of the way. Trust the new shape and form of your world
Melody BeattieToday I will stop trying to control my relationships. I will participate at a reasonable level and let the other person do the same. I can let go, knowing that the relationship will find its own life-or not-and that I don't have to do all the work, only my share.
Melody BeattieA codependent person is one who has let another person's behavior affect him or her and who is obsessed with controlling that person's behavior.
Melody BeattieAcceptance is the magic that makes change possible. It is not forever, it is for the present moment
Melody Beattie