Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so.

Some of the worst elements of Guyland rest on the twin pillars of men's silence and women's compliance.

I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other.

White men in North America are the beneficiaries of the single biggest affirmative action program in world history. It's called world history.

It's like what you might call Goldilocks' dilemma in the old fairy tale. Young men see women as "less than" or "better than," but never their equals. And studies indicate that equality is the best foundation for a healthy relationship.

Playing along with Guyland may be the only way an individual woman might believe she has a chance at a social life or a relationship. Sometimes it gets pretty crazy, like a sorority requiring that all the pledges sleep with the members of the "brother" fraternity.

We have the data to prove to men that gender equality is not a zero-sum game, but a win-win.