I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other.
Michael KimmelYoung men are eager to "hook up" with women. And many say they have very good female friends. But some of the emotions circulating among guys make it difficult to form and sustain healthy relationships.
Michael KimmelWhite men in North America are the beneficiaries of the single biggest affirmative action program in world history. It's called world history.
Michael KimmelMany boyfriends or close male friends seem so different when they are by themselves, as opposed to when they are with a bunch of other guys. I think it has to do with the desperate desire on the part of guys to be seen as a "real guy" - a real man, a man's man.
Michael Kimmel