I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other.
Michael KimmelSo guys who are otherwise sensitive and thoughtful say and do ridiculously dumb things to impress other guys. It's an enormous performance, but guys know that if they fail, they'll be ridiculed as sissies mercilessly.
Michael KimmelFeminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so.
Michael KimmelMy colleagues and I have done a survey of 13,000 students on more than 17 campuses, and we found that while sex in college has always been a bit more casual, "hooking up" has pretty much replaced other traditional forms of dating.
Michael Kimmel