Always keep an eye out for other opportunities.
Money may not be able to buy you love, but conflicts about it can certainly bankrupt your relationship.
I just don't like people taking debt into retirement.
Having kids doesn't mean they would have taken care o you.
Priorities lead to prosperity.
A smart couple with a healthy financial relationship is always talking about money and how they're handling it. If there's a medical emergency or a job loss, talk about it. If there's a windfall, talk about it. Your financial situation is a constantly changing thing.