Leaders have to give time for relationships. But more demands will be placed on their time as they become more successful. So if a person's success is based on developing relationships, then they have to continually find new ways of getting it done

Sometimes in a defeat, you can set the stage for future victory. I wanted them to feel good about what they had accomplished. Not to like losing, but to like the success that they had.

Are you going to show integrity only when someone is watching you - or are you going to show it all the time?

I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit.

I try to see each new season as a new challenge because I have a new team to work with, new opponents to encounter, and often new ideas and theories to try

I don't look at myself as a basketball coach. I look at myself as a leader who happens to coach basketball.

Pete Newell told me 'get as much information and learn as much about the game as you can, but use your own personality to teach it.'