The most important thing in changing human behavior is the person's motivation.
Life is lived in the present and directed toward a future.
How many of us really appreciate the childishness of the unconscious mind?
People do not come into therapy to change their past but their future.
The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.
There are so many things in human living that we should regard not as traumatic learning but as incomplete learning, unfinished learning.