Experience gives us the tests first and the lessons later.
You only get to be a victim once. After that, you're a volunteer.
I'm a registered, vetted gun owner, but that's because I live way out in the country, like way out in the middle of nowhere.
You shouldn't be ashamed of your pain. You have the right to have your pain treated.
Your real identity is your spiritual being. And every problem, if you're a spiritual being, every problem has a spiritual solution.
You're only a victim once. The next time you're an accomplice.