First you fuel the desire, then the desire will fuel you.
It is now a documented principle of psychology that human beings subconsciously move in the direction of their most dominant thought.
Every failure, every adversity, every heartache may be a blessing in disguise providing it softens the animal portion of our nature.
Your mental attitude attracts to you everything that makes you what you are.
Waste no words on a man who dislikes you. Actions will impress him more.
Love attracts only one thing and that thing is love.