When we come to the table, we shouldn't negotiate right away. We should spend time walking together, eating together, making acquaintance, telling each other about our own suffering, without blame or condemnation. It takes maybe one, two, three weeks to do that. And if communication and understanding are possible, negotiation will be easier. So if I am to organize a peace negotiation, I will organize it in that way.
Nhat HanhChoose to be in touch with what is wonderful, refreshing, and healing within yourself and around you.
Nhat HanhThere is a time for everything. There is a time when I sit down, I concentrate myself on the problem of my bills, but I would not worry before that. One thing at a time.
Nhat HanhWhenever anger comes up, take out a mirror and look at yourself. When you are angry, you are not very beautiful.
Nhat Hanh