She was trying to say something else; she was trying to say that the inability to articulate what one feels in any satisfactory way is one of our enduring tragedies. It wouldn't have been much, and it wouldn't have been useful, but it would have been something that reflected the gravity and the sadness inside her. Instead, she had snapped at him for being a loser. It was as if she were trying to find a handhold on the boulder of her feelings, and had merely ended up with grit under her nails.
Nick HornbyNo time spent with a book is ever entirely wasted, even if the experience is not a happy one: thereโs always something to be learned. Itโs just that, every now and again, you can hit a patch of reading that makes you feel as if youโre pootling about. [...] But what can you do about it? We donโt choose to waste our reading time; it just happens. The books let us down.
Nick HornbyAnd mostly all I have to say about these songs is that I love them, and want to sing along to them, and force other people to listen to them, and get cross when these other people don't like them as much as I do.
Nick HornbyWe spent all those years talking about stuff we had in common, and the last few months noticing all the ways we were different and it broke both of our hearts.
Nick HornbyI'm still not a very good white wine, but I'm drinkable - you could put me in a punch, anyway.
Nick HornbyI don't think you can call it stalking when it's just phone calls and letters and emails and knocking on the door.
Nick HornbyDid I do and say these things? Yes, I did. Are there any mitigating circumstances? Not really, unless any circumstances {in other words, context) can be regarded as mitigating. And before you judge, although you have probably already done so, go away and write down the four worst things you have done to a partner, even if - especially if - your partner doesn't know about them. Don't dress things up, or try to explain them; just write them down, in a list, in the plainest language possible. Finished? Ok, so who's the arsehole now?
Nick Hornby