I have a skill set that often helps me get through hurtful moments or experiences. However, sometimes when the pain cuts really deep, my normal go-to exercises just won't work.
Nikki DeLoachBe kind to yourself and to others. Treat others the way you would want to be treated. I was told that every day of my childhood.
Nikki DeLoachReminding myself of all that I have to be thankful for really helps ground me and keeps me from tipping over into that negative place.
Nikki DeLoachI have a couple of what I call "buttons" - fears or anxieties that when tweaked can cause me to be vulnerable. Fear of failure, not being good enough, and abandonment are my main buttons. However, they have diminished greatly over the years as I have really confronted those fears in order to work through them.
Nikki DeLoach