That's the quality of the Spirit that you start feeling so joyous and the joy doesn't have the duality of happiness and unhappiness. It's singular.

Spirit is like a mirror where you see yourself clearly and you start changing yourself.

Without quietude you cannot enjoy the cool vibrations of the Divine.

Understand that wisdom is higher than intellect and discretion is higher than debating.

Either you lead a life which is luxurious on the material level or you lead a luxurious life of God's blessings. One of these two you have to choose, the time has come.

So to have peace, the best way to put your mind right is to think of good things. Think of the flowers, not of the thorns. What good things others have done to you, what good things there are, what are the beautiful moments you have had, and count your blessings . Count your blessings, otherwise you cannot create peace.

To achieve your ethereal state, you have to expand your thoughtless awareness.