So many of the conscious and unconscious ways men and women treat each other have to do with romantic and sexual fantasies that are deeply ingrained, not just in society but in literature. The women's movement may manage to clean up the mess in society, but I don't know whether it can ever clean up the mess in our minds.

If there is a Nora Ephron signature anything it is that there's slightly too much food. I have a friend whose mantra is: You must choose. And I believe the exact opposite: I think you should always have at least four desserts that are kind of fighting with each other.

When your children are teenagers, it's important to have a dog so that someone in the house is happy to see you.

I actually believe in denial.

Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. ... Reading is bliss.

people in New Orleans really care about food, care about it passionately, can spend hours arguing over whether Antoine's is better than Galatoire's or the other way around ... in New Orleans, there is basically nothing to do but eat and then argue about it.

Sometimes I believe that some people are better at love than others, and sometimes I believe that everyone is faking it.