In every adversity, there is a seed of equivalent benefit.
Am I a control freak? No. Do I believe in organization? You bet. In discipline? In being on time and making sure everything at the hotel is ready and right? Definitely. I don't control players. I try to control the environment around the players so they can flourish.
No rebounds, no rings.
Giving yourself permission to lose guarantees a loss.
Don't let other people tell you what you want.
The changes in your life aren't always what you hoped for. But they usually help you grow.