This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.

This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.

When you're hurting another person, past a certain point you're cracking them open and whatever's inside them gets all over you. So you should kinda check out whether you want that to happen.

If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

Responsibility without power is a really bad deal.

Prejudice usually can't survive close contact with the people who are supposed to be so despicable, which is why the propagandists for hate always preach separation.

By coming out to ourselves, we free up the energy we spent keeping a part of ourselves hidden.