If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very least, make you invisible.

This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.

If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very least, make you invisible.

Boy lovers and the lesbians who have young lovers... are not child molesters. The child abusers are priests, teachers, therapists, cops and parents who force their staid morality onto the young people in their custody.

If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

The scars are a way of reminding me that the past is real. They are honorable.

A lot of people who are depressed, I think, are suffering from blocked creativity.