We had a church together. We co-founded and co-pastored the ministry, but Randy [White] was really a strong part.

I was in school at the time, but at this time I'm in college. I'm holding up this bible and I say, God, who are you?And so I do nothing for the next two years of my life, virtually, but stay in the word of God and find out what is the answers to life.

I said God, I want to spend the rest of my life helping people, and felt a real call through a divine moment, an encounter with God. I went to my pastor and said I have a call of God to preach. He put a broom in my hand, and I began to sweep the church.

When you go through abuse - the behavior - what happens is all behavior stems from faulty belief.

God has hooked me up.He has the life by design.

I talk about things like how to lose without losing identity. All loss and grief feels like when you transition.

I think, for myself, life lied to me.