Everything is fresh, the essence of realization.

It's helpful to remind yourself that meditation is about opening and relaxing with whatever arises, without picking and choosing.

Cool loneliness allows us to look honestly and without aggressionat our own minds. We can gradually drop our ideals of who we think weought to be, or who we think we want to be, or who we think other peoplethink we want to be or ought to be. We give it up and just look directlywith compassion and humor at who we are. Then loneliness is no threat andheartache, no punishment.

To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest.

The trick is to keep exploring and not bail out, even when we find out that something is not what we thought. That's what we're going to discover again and again and again. Nothing is what we thought. I can say that with great confidence. Emptiness is not what we thought. Neither is mindfulness or fear. Compassion––not what we thought. Love. Buddha nature. Courage. These are code words for things we don't know in our minds, but any of us could experience them. These are words that point to what life really is when we let things fall apart and let ourselves be nailed to the present moment.

None of us is ever OK, but we all get through everything just fine.

Meditation practice isn't about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's about befriending who we are already.