Inner #โ peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your #โ emotions
Pema ChodronEven if you don't feel appreciation, just look. Feel what you feel; take an interest and be curious.
Pema ChodronThe painful thing is that when we buy into disapproval, we are practicing disapproval. When we buy into harshness, we are practicing harshness. The more we do it, the stronger these qualities become. How sad it is that we become so expert at causing harm to ourselves and others. The trick then is to practice gentleness and letting go. We can learn to meet whatever arises with curiosity and not make it such a big deal.
Pema ChodronMeditation practice isn't about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's about befriending who we are already.
Pema Chodron