Tonglen practice begins to dissolve the illusion that each of us is alone with this personal suffering that no one else can understand.
Pema ChodronIn practicing meditation, we're not trying to live up to some kind of ideal -- quite the opposite. We're just being with our experience, whatever it is.
Pema ChodronIf you work with your mind, that will alleviate all the suffering that seems to come from the outside.
Pema ChodronSimply be present with your own shifting energies and with the unpredictabilit y of life as it unfolds.
Pema ChodronAlthough it is embarrassing and painful, it is very healing to stop hiding from yourself. It is healing to know all the ways that youโre sneaky, all the ways that you hide out, all the ways that you shut down, deny, close off, criticize people, all your weird little ways. You can know all of that with some sense of humor and kindness. By knowing yourself, youโre coming to know humanness altogether. We are all up against these things. We are all in this together.
Pema Chodron