In tonglen practice, when we see or feel suffering, we โฏbreathe in with the notion of completely feeling it, accepting it, and owning it. Then we breathe out, radiating compassion, lovingkindness, freshness - anything that encourages relaxation and openness.โฏ So you're training in softening, rather than tightening, your heart. In this practice, it's not uncommon to find yourself blocked, because you come face to face with your own fear, resistance, or whatever your personal "stuckness" happens to be at that moment.
Pema ChodronBeing fully present isnโt something that happens once and then you have achieved it; itโs being awake to the ebb and flow and movement and creation of life, being alive to the process of life itself.
Pema ChodronIn a nutshell, when life is pleasant, think of others. When life is a burden, think of others.
Pema Chodron