You need only look at what's in front of you and find something there to appreciate.

All the good, fine, noble, and creative acts of humanity were conceived as a spark in a single human consciousness.

..Fear is the energy to do your best in a new situation. The feeling of fear (anxiety, nervousness, shyness, or any of its other aliases) is really "preparation energy". It's getting you ready to excel, to succeed, to do your best and to learn the most.

Definition of a victim: a person to whom life happens.

Send the light of your own loving ahead of you. When you get there, the loving will have prepared a place for you. Be kind, gentle, and enjoy the journey.

there is nothing to be done. only accept it... and hurt.

All the things you think you should have done that you didn't do, and all the things you did that you think you shouldn't have done, accept them. You did (or didn't ) do them. That's reality. That's what happened. No changing the past.