Why do so many marriages fail? Because nobody gets taught how to be married. We're not taught how to pick a mate, or why to pick a mate; we don't know how to manage our emotions once we're in a marriage; we don't know how to resolve marital conflict. Married people have never been taught why they or their spouses feel the way they do and act the way they do. Nobody has ever taught us the fundamentals.

There is no reality, only perception.

In life you have three options with any situation that is a challenge. Remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it.

A year from now, you're gonna weigh more or less than what you do right now.

There is nothing wrong with your marriage if you're dealing with bills and kids and the broken garbage disposal and in-laws and work demands. That's a normal marriage.

You must demand nothing less than the best of yourself and for yourself. You must tell yourself that it is not wrong to want it all.

Eighty percent of all questions are statements in disguise.