Successful weight loss takes programming, not willpower.
You have got to decide, look, this is who I am; this is my best way to present myself, and I'm going to ride that horse to the finish line. Not everybody will like it, but that's OK.
I just am not good at math.
Take the high road, there's a lot less traffic up there.
You need to listen to your body because your body is listening to you.
If you don't know what it is you want - and I mean specifically - then you won't even know when you have it.