You know, what we do know is that there is a high frequency of violence in the home of those who bully.

Food is a coping mechanism; people are afraid of giving it up because then they'll feel confused and lost.

You either get it or you don't. Become one of those who get it.

Willpower is a myth. The problem with trying to use willpower to achieve and sustain a behavioral change is that it is fueled by emotion. And as we all know, our emotions are, at best, fickle. They come and go. When your emotions start running down -- and they will -- even your best-laid plans will fall flat.

If you need a miracle, be a miracle.

There has never been a merging of two lives where significant problems of daily living did not occur. One way or another, your relationship is going to be affected. The only question is how. There's a big difference between knowing and doing. It's not what happens between partners that determines the outcome of a relationship, it's how they handle what happens. If all you deal with in your relationship is problems, then you will have a problem relationship. If you want your pound of flesh with full acknowledgement that you're right, your future will be dim.

I think you're running into a lot of trouble if your idea of foreplay is, 'Brace yourself honey, here I come!'