Those who marry for money end up EARNING it anyway.
If you want more, you have to require more from yourself.
Know your goal, make a plan and pull the trigger
You either get it or you don't. Become one of those who get it.
This is your life and the clock is ticking.
I think you're running into a lot of trouble if your idea of foreplay is, 'Brace yourself honey, here I come!'