You don't need a pack of wild horses to learn how to make a sandwich.
The most you get is what you ask for.
When you allow a person's words to upset you, you're giving away your power.
You need to face the pain and the fear and walk through the Grief.
If you want more, you have to require more from yourself.
People who consistently win have a clear and thoughtful strategy. They know what they need to do and when they need to do it. They write it down so they stay on course, and avoid any alternative that does not get them closer to the finish line.