My wife and daughter have accused me of being too silent at breakfast but I don't want to talk when I don't have much to say.
Phillip LopateWhy am I attracted to all these lying quotes all of a sudden? Hereโs another one. This one by Phillip Lopate: โ(Children know it better than adults) that in telling a lie, fidelity is everything.โ
Phillip LopateIt bothers me when I can't, for example, remember a name. I don't know if it's pre-senility or whether there are too many names packed in our brains.
Phillip LopateMost good essays are conversations with yourself - not just your decided thoughts but your dilemmas.
Phillip LopateI imagined a psychic pain growing inside him (myself) that demanded some physical outlet. Suicide must have been his attempt to give Pain a body, a representation, to put it outside himself. A need to convert inner torment into some outward tangible wound that all could see. It was almost as though suicide were a last-ditch effort at exorcism, in which the person sacrificed his life in order that the devil inside might die.
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