In new work, we need to see the shadow, however faint, of previous literary effort.

... I vowed that I would always respect the right of an individual to kill himself. Whether suicide was a moral or immoral act I no longer felt sure, but of the dignity of its intransigence I was convinced.

The trick is to realize that one is not important, except insofar as one’s example can serve to elucidate a more widespread human trait and make readers feel a little less lonely and freakish.

I like the freedom that comes with lowered expectations.

You must read a lot of personal essays - you needn't reinvent the wheel.

A personal essay often includes some or a lot of personal confession. That makes the reader feel less lonely in their confusion and darkness.

Indeed, at times it's best to shut up.