You don't have to do anything.
Exhibitionists have no friends, no friends at all.
My function in life was to render clear what was already blindingly conspicuous.
If I were God - and I never understand why I'm not - I should say, "Shop around, I don't think you'll find a better bargain than here."
Ask yourself, if there was to be no blame, and if there was to be no praise, who would I be then?
To lose is not always failure.