You listen to the mind, you become miserable - otherwise, this today is paradise! And there is no other paradise, this today is nirvana. If you had not listened to the mind... just don't listen to the mind, then you are not in misery; because misery cannot exist without expectations and without hopes. And when misery exists you need more hopes for it, to hide it, to live somehow. Live hopelessly - then you are a righteous man, then you are retired.
RajneeshDonยดt be unnecessarily burdened by the past. Go on closing the chapters that you have read; there is no need to go back again and again.
RajneeshLove is a state of being; it has nothing to do with anybody else. One is not in love, one is love.
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