Counseling has to do with intuition, with work on oneself, with the quietness of one's mind and the openness of one's heart.
Ram DassAfter meditating for some years, I began to see the patterns of my own behavior. As you quiet your mind, you begin to see the nature of your own resistance more clearly, struggles, inner dialogues, the way in which you procrastinate and develop passive resistance against life. As you cultivate the witness, things change. You don't have to change them. Things just change.
Ram DassIn our relationships, how much can we allow them to become new, and how much do we cling to what they used to be yesterday?
Ram Dass