Never make a decesion until you have to". He'd also warn me that even if I was in a position of strenght, whether at work or in a relationship, I had to play fair. "Just because you're in the driver's seat, doesn't mean you have to run people over.
Randy PauschThere are respectful, considerate things that can be done in life that will be appreciated by the recipient, and only good things can result.
Randy PauschThe brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough. They are there to stop the other people!
Randy Pausch